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October 30, 2018

This Autumn sees Victoria Smith-Murphy and I launch the 2iC Leadership development experience into fast growing entrepreneurial businesses. We're really cu...

October 16, 2018

A 5 min read on bringing 'elasticity' workplace relationships & business partnerships...

Type 'elasticity' into google and a whole load of economics po...

September 11, 2018

On a scale of 1-10 how would you rate your self-awareness? Personally, I would have rated mine an 8.5/9 out of 10. As a coach, I pride myself on knowing my...

May 30, 2018

At one very low point of my own personal journey of leadership development, I remember sobbing over and over again... "I just want to be me". But it wasn't...

May 16, 2018

Over the last year I’ve been noticing where entrepreneurs spend their time and money and it strikes me that Co-Founders of start-ups and their investors se...

March 12, 2018

Following on the webinar recorded for the IGD on 22 February 2018 "Building Effective Workplace Relationships", there were a number of questions to which I...

March 12, 2018

The theme of help feels very strong in my world at the moment: 

  • Yesterday was spent helping my parents navigate the tech challenges from making catch up...

September 20, 2017

Combatting loneliness is something that is important to me. 

But the emphasis is predominantly all about loneliness at home and I think we're missing someth...

September 11, 2017

Read my weekly reflections on coaching workplace relationships. This week, it's about my response to the expression 'office politics'.

November 23, 2016

This is the twelfth and final in this series of posts about ‘relational learning’; how we learn about ourselves through our relationships wi...

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